What to Expect When You Visit Me for a Mediumship Reading

If you’ve never had a reading with a psychic medium before, you might be feeling a mix of curiosity, excitement, and even a little nervousness. Will your loved one come through? Will you have to say much? How will it feel?

As a professional medium, I’ve guided many people through their very first session. In this guide, I’ll walk you through exactly what to expect — from booking to aftercare — so you can arrive feeling calm, prepared, and open to whatever spirit has in store.

Before Your Reading: Preparing Yourself

Booking a mediumship reading is more than just picking a date — it’s the start of an energetic connection. Often, people notice they think more about their loved ones or even dream about them in the days before their appointment.

Here’s how you can prepare:

Set an intention — Think about who or what you hope to connect with.

Stay open — Spirit chooses who comes forward first.

Relax expectations — The most healing messages are often unexpected.

Preparing for your first psychic medium reading helps you feel grounded and ready for a genuine connection.

When You Arrive: A Calm, Private Space

Whether we meet in person or online, you’ll be welcomed into a safe, comfortable, and private environment. I may light a candle, play soft music, or take a moment of quiet before we begin. This helps us both focus and invites spirit in.

I’ll explain exactly how I work, including:

How spirit gives me images, words, feelings, and memories.

How I provide evidence of personality, appearance, and shared experiences.

How I deliver messages in the spirit communicator’s own tone and style.

How Spirit Communication Flows

Most readings begin with general impressions — a sense of whether the communicator is male or female, their personality, or how they passed. Then, the finer details emerge:

A shared family memory

A favourite song or phrase

A description of a special belonging

These validations are how we know your loved one is truly present.

Your Role in the Reading

You don’t need to tell me your life story — just respond with “yes,” “no,” or “I’m not sure” when I check a detail. This keeps the reading authentic and centred on what spirit brings through.

Sometimes, details won’t make sense right away. That’s okay — spirit often delivers messages that connect later, after reflection or conversations with family.

The Emotional Experience

Mediumship is emotional as well as evidential. You may laugh when a loved one shares a familiar joke, or you might cry when they send a message of love or comfort.

Whatever emotions arise are welcome. This is a safe space for you to feel what you need to feel.

If the Unexpected Happens

The person you most want to hear from may not be the first to come forward. Sometimes, another loved one steps in with a message they feel you need right now. Trust that spirit knows the right order — it’s often those surprise visits that leave the deepest impact.

After Your Reading

Once your session ends, I recommend:

Writing down everything you remember.

Listening back to your recording (if we agreed to make one).

Taking a few quiet moments to reflect on the experience.

Many clients find that details reveal their full meaning days or even weeks later.

Common Questions I’m Asked

Can you guarantee my loved one will come through?
No, but I trust spirit to bring forward the right person and message for you.

Will I hear bad news?
Messages from spirit are given with love and compassion. Even difficult truths are delivered gently.

How often should I have a reading?
I recommend waiting a few months before booking another, to allow new experiences and messages to develop.

My Promise to You

When you sit with me, I will give my full focus, respect, and care to your reading. My goal is to bring forward clear evidence, heartfelt messages, and reassurance that love never dies.

Whether you’re looking for comfort, closure, or simply a moment of connection, I will do my best to make your reading a meaningful and healing experience.

Book Your Mediumship Reading Today

If you’ve been wondering what to expect from a psychic medium reading or you’re ready for your first mediumship session, I’d love to welcome you.
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What to Expect When You Visit Me for a Mediumship Reading